ABOUT THIS SITE
Something different
Something new
​Combining the forces of Love, the Body, Mind and Soul through offering events, embodied experiences and counselling.
Also providing a platform for a blog about various topics, like tantra, poetry and education on science, physics, astronomy, aiming to bring clarity to people who may be confused about pseudo-science and some of the misconceptions that it produces.
In addition there's a section showcasing my photography portfolio, resulting from my passion for capturing scenes from the book of life.
More in this blog-post.
Rob Millenaar
digital creator and facilitator
A brief bio
I live in lovely Noordhoek, just South of Cape Town, South Africa. Originally from The Netherlands, I came here for work and decided to stay, because of its people, nature, and magnificent scenery.
I have had a lifelong fascination in the scientific field of astronomy and found my purpose there. After retirement I realised that there is more than work, and now I combine my former passions with exploring the world, being in nature, and relating to conscious people of which there are many in this part of the world.
Teachings passed through generations, originating from South Eastern Asia have found a fertile ground in South Africa and I aim to do my part in expanding the benefits of living a harmonious life for all.
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About Consent
All modalities I offer start with a conversation about consent, so that there will be full understanding between client and facilitator.
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Consent is discussed along the lines that are set out by Dr. Betty Martin in the Wheel of Consent (link). Within the boundaries of consent the interactions of Allowing versus Taking and Serving versus Accepting define the sometimes subtle dynamics of relating, of mindful behaviour towards the other person. Outside of the boundaries of consent are the types of behaviour that we want to avoid because of the harmful nature of our shadow-sides.
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Depending on the nature of the interaction of client and facilitator (is it a naked event with or without touch, or a massage) a checklist of attention points will be discussed for as far as relevant. Devised by Laurie Handlers
(link) the acronym RBDSMT is used, which stands for:
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Relationship, what is your relationship status?
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Boundaries, which are they?
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Desires, what do you want?
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Sexual health, any worries?
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Meaning, how will it help you?
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Trauma, any physical or mental points of consideration?
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What applies to the dynamics between client and facilitator also has relevance to understanding behaviour and ingrained patterns of ourselves and how we relate with others. A worthwhile read is a blog by Andrew Barnes, discussing his Relationship Map (link).
